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Yesterday, I was having a conversation and a topic came up, namely Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher’s marriage. In my musings, I later recalled thinking that I don’t know this woman or this man. Why do I care about their personal life? I wouldn’t normally care about a stranger’s marital problems. Why are the details of these people, whom I’ve never had the pleasure of meeting, so important that I am engaging in an entire conversation based on their life. That is essentially the question that we all should be asking. These people allegedly had something bad happen to them and now they are media fodder.

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Who are we to judge? Are our lives so boring that we must talk about a stranger’s misfortune? Or is it that Moore’s misfortune makes us all feel better our own existence, namely because we haven’t befallen her fate? It’s a bit of all three depending on the person.

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Your conscious mind may know the difference between a good thought or a bad thought; but your subconscious mind does not. Your subconscious mind simply stores the information to help your conscious mind map how you should or should not feel about a certain situation. It follows along the theory of hypnotherapy (using the subconscious mind to reprogram the conscious mind’s reaction to certain stimuli). Other therapys focus on the same tactics by discussing your feelings around a certain event and reprogramming your reaction when faced with similar events. Are you starting to see a pattern?

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Please note, I am a NOT a licensed psychologist, the tips enclosed in these articles are to help you find your own slice of happiness. Sometimes the problems we face internally within ourselves require clinical attention. Please seek the help of a licensed psychologist or medical professional if things are getting out of your control. Here is a list to help you find a local psychologist that may suit your needs in Colorado.